Dad Mode: A Postpartum Guide for New & Expecting Fathers

Becoming a dad is like being handed the biggest promotion of your life with zero training, endless overtime, and the cutest boss you’ll ever meet. One moment you’re soaking up newborn snuggles, and the next you’re googling how to swaddle without losing your mind. It’s completely normal to feel stretched thin as you try to support your partner, bond with your newborn, and still take care of yourself. The truth is, dads are a vital part of the postpartum journey, not just as helpers, but as parents who need support. When dads care for their own mental health, they’re better equipped to show up for both mom and baby, creating a stronger and healthier family from the start. Postpartum might seem like a mom's world, but the truth is, dads are living it too.

Allison RollansAugust 28, 2025Postpartum Mental Heath for fathers/partners, dad and baby, partner support, postpartum depression, perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, postpartum doulas, newborn, life adjustmentsComment

Growing Your Postpartum Support System

Having a baby can bring about a lot of changes within your life, some like having to wake up in the middle of the night for feedings, changing way more diapers than you ever thought possible, and learning to have a flexible schedule are all things parents prepare for when having a baby. What is not so common to hear talked about, is how relationships with your partner, family, and friends may change. So what are some of these changes that may happen and what are some ways that you can grow your support system during your pregnancy to be prepared for when these changes may occur?

Allison RollansApril 14, 2023postpartum planning, partner support, 4th TrimesterComment

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